Ukasha Malik, MACP, RP.
Professional Experience
Individual & Couples Psychotherapist
Founder of a psychotherapy private practice
Supportive counsellor at domestic violence shelters
Strategic Intervention Life Coach
Education
ASIST, Living Works Certificate
Gottman Level 1& 2
Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology
Strategic Intervention Certification
Therapeutic Approach
Culturally attuned, collaborative & client-centred
Integrates reflective insight
Focused on meaningful change
emotional safety and personal growth
Modalities
Cognitive & Dialectical Behavioural Therapy
Narrative Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy
Solution Focused Therapy
Emotion Focused Therapy
Areas of Focus
Anxiety, Depression,
Anger, Trauma,
Relationship issues,
Sexual Intimacy Issues, Parenting,
ADHD, Grief, & Borderline Personality Disorder
Personal Experience
Wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunt & volunteer
Love for family, friends, dance & cats
Hangglided in Rio
Walked on Fire at Tony Robbins UPW
Climed a waterfall & swam with Dolphins in Jamaica
My Story
I moved to Canada from Pakistan at the age of ten. While there was excitement in starting a new life, the early years were also marked by loneliness and cultural dislocation. Growing up in a large family, weekends were filled with gatherings, connection, and community. In Canada, life shifted toward becoming “someone” — making the sacrifice of leaving home count.
At ten years old, I couldn’t fully understand what I was giving up. Like many immigrants, I began navigating the space between worlds — slowly losing the effortless sense of belonging to my birth country while learning how to fit into a new one. On one hand, preserving cultural and religious values felt essential. On the other, adapting to Western norms became necessary.
Returning to Pakistan for visits no longer felt the same. Although I cherished time with extended family, knowing it was temporary made connection harder. Over time, distance reshaped relationships, and the pressure to maintain cultural and religious traditions while building a life in Canada became overwhelming. Eventually, Canada began to feel like home, and Western values became the default through education and daily exposure.
It wasn’t until completing my bachelor’s degree, getting married, and becoming a parent that I reconnected more deeply with my cultural and religious roots. With that reconnection came renewed pressure — balancing Eastern and Western expectations, striving to be “good enough,” and carrying invisible responsibilities.
Seven years into marriage, navigating my husband’s cancer diagnosis, and raising two children, I found myself anxious, depressed, and disconnected from who I once was. That was when I took the courageous step toward therapy.
Therapy helped me reconnect with myself and create a new way of living — one grounded in values that truly mattered to me. I learned how to balance individual needs with collective responsibilities, honour my autonomy, and build a life rooted in mutual respect, shared values, and genuine partnership. Through boundaries, coping strategies, and intentional goal-setting, I began to heal.
Today, as a Registered Psychotherapist with a Master of Arts in Counselling Psychology, I bring both lived experience and clinical training into my work. Through my private practice, I support individuals and couples who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected — and who are seeking more than simply getting through the day.
I believe that asking for help and allowing yourself to be vulnerable takes immense courage. My goal is to create a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental therapeutic space where healing can unfold at your pace.
Using a relational, collaborative, and psychodynamic approach, I help you explore the underlying patterns contributing to your concerns while strengthening your ability to cope with life’s challenges.
My work is trauma-informed, person-centred and guided by integrating eastern wisdom and evidence-based modalities such as:
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Narrative Therapy
Solution-Focused Therapy
Emotion-Focused Therapy
Internal Family Systems
Gottman Method
Imago Therapy
Adlerian Therapy
Gestalt Therapy
These approaches support emotional regulation, relational healing, boundary setting, problem-solving, attachment work, and the transformation of limiting beliefs.
I currently offer online individual and couples therapy, with daytime and evening appointments available. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or ready for meaningful change, I invite you to reach out. It would be an honour to support you on your journey toward healing, clarity, and deeper connection.
What to Expect in Sessions
Psychotherapy is mostly about you telling your story. Together you and I determine what is working, and what is not working. The first few therapy sessions are mainly an opportunity for me to gather biopsychosocial information about you, your family and to learn about the concerns that have brought you therapy.
Some areas that I can help you with are Trauma, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Challenges, Grief, Anger Management, Sexual and Emotional Intimacy, Communication, Conflict Management, Boundary Setting Skills, Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.
Risks and Benefits of Psychotherapy
It is important to recognize that psychological intervention has both benefits and risks.
Since therapy often involves discussing unpleasant aspects of one’s life, you may experience a temporary increase in uncomfortable feelings like sadness, guilt, anger, frustration, loneliness and even helplessness. It would not be uncommon for things to feel worse before they start to feel better.
Therapy has been shown to have significant benefits. Therapy can lead to a significant reduction in stress, improved relationships, enhanced coping and problem-solving abilities, development of new skills, a change in unwanted behaviours, improved self-esteem, improved acceptance of oneself and/or situation and greater insight into personal goals and values.

